In the last email (review email 37) I suggested that when
we decide to become the CEO of our lives we must begin to
search for information that is in alignment with where we want to be.
Our goal is to address the question of:
How do I get there? (that place in life I would prefer to
be). This question focuses our attention on how we intend to close the GAP.
In email 8 I suggested that we need to question our ways of
being and consider the following:
- positive influences (accurate information and
- confidence in innate abilities and boldness in
acquiring new tools
- sensitivity to internal environment (awareness
of unique needs, desires, abilities)
- clarity about appropriate long-range personal
and/or professional goals
- consistent efforts that do respect the
learning needs of the subconscious mind
I have touched on each of these bullet points in previous
emails, offered small exercises along the way, and will continue to do so. However, unless we make deliberate use of accurate
information little will change.
I encourage you to begin to assess your level of commitment
and follow through with this educational series. Ask yourself the following
questions and be honest with yourself:
-how dedicated have I been in reading each email?
-how devoted have I been to my personal growth?
-how much action have I been willing to take?
Over a month ago (email 2) I suggested that wanting a better life means we must become absolutely positively obsessed (A.P.O) with the creation of something better. Anything less then this and we are apt to remain stuck.
So ask yourself the questions above with the intention of using them as a means to move forward rather then as a means to validate a victim stance.
My intention is to encourage you to become more curious
about where you are, where you want to be and what it will require from you to get
there. This is the "gap" we address in private sessions, and group.
Terri Lee Cooper MSc. RSW