“My wife still does not know I came to see you. But she sees
something different, the man I used to be I guess, not the weak one I was
becoming. I’m getting another chance and I am trying to teach your process to
my kids.” Kent, Los Angeles
Kent is a 43-year-old
married professional from Los Angeles. A series of significant life transitions
had as he put it “taken the wind out of my sails.” He described himself as having been
confident, extroverted enterprising person had who lost steam along the way.
He felt that
his confidence was at an all-time low.
He was becoming fearful about his ability to reach his professional
goals and even maintaining his daily work standards was becoming difficult. When
at home, Kent was easily irritated and began isolating himself. His energy was
depleted and he was fearful that his wife would eventually leave him.
referred by a colleague and was able to spend one full intensive day in the
office. This allowed us to begin assessment and to lay the foundation for future
work. All subsequent customized program support was delivered online.
was to get the “old me” back with a few revisions. The custom program designed
for him included briefly addressing the transitions that had occurred, his
underlying beliefs and the meaning he had subscribed to these situations.
several new mindset constructs were identified as needing to be installed to
influence the subconscious mind to accept an update self-image. A range of
Skype sessions, recordings and field assignments and email updates were offered
which allowed Kent to work at his own pace.
thrilled with the simplicity of the model and has begun to use age appropriate pieces with his children. He
is keenly interested in ensuring that he models and teaches ways of being that
will support his sons to grow up with a sense of “unwavering confidence.”
Terri Lee Cooper MSc. RSW NLP_M DCH
St. Albert Medical Centre