We know that people do not make a conscious decision to become
Addiction does not just happen; it insidiously creeps in when the
circumstances are right. There are moments in time when the vulnerable individual
learns that the use of a substance creates relief. This experience of relief is
imprinted and the literal subconscious mind demands more of what has “worked.”
Many people experiencing issues with drugs/alcohol do not see themselves as addicts. This is often the case when one has had the opportunity to compare themselves to other users. For example, after attending traditional support services, some functional users will decide that they are coping relatively well in comparison to others.
"Addiction” as it is known in the western world has been defined and treated via a medical and spiritual/morality model. However, somewhere along the continuum there exists the possibility for some people to create healthier parameters around their use while maintaining functional capacity.
The disease model and the morality model are limited in that they place the user in a victim state. Not all users should be viewed as having a ‘disease’ or lacking morality. The desire to learn to be in control of using is common. For some, it is possible.
This is especially the case for the individual who is willing to invest time and energy in building the new persona. Moving away from the “addict” persona to a healthier persona requires that the subconscious mind accept the new identity, the associated beliefs and behaviors.
Most people who do see themselves as an “addict” do not
require medical detox and in many respects, are capable functional members of
society. We can look at “addictions” as
simply a set of thought, feeling and behavior habits that has become ingrained.
As with any set of habitual ways there is congruent with an identity and associated beliefs. Self perception
either serves or not. The “healthy” individual has learned a set of thoughts,
feelings and behaviors that are congruent with a self image that serves.
The decision can be made to choose one’s identity. If we come at
it from this angle would you say “I am an addict” or would you say “I have some
habits (thought, feeling and behavior) that need to be restructured if I am to
live a better life?” Our thought, feeling and behavior habits will always be consistent with our self identity. The self
identity is rooted in the subconscious mind and the subconscious mind can be
influenced. In fact, the very presence of addiction is proof that the mind HAS
already been influenced, usually at a time when the individual lacked tools and
strategies for self determination.